Power Mirror Control Unit Connector End View (DPMS) (View 350)
WARNING: This page is about a different car, the 2011 Honda Odyssey. However, it is still accessible from the selected car via links, so may be relevant.
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Behind Driver's Door Panel
On Driver's Door Wire Harness
Fig 1: Power Mirror Control Unit (DPMS) Connector Terminals (View 350)